Thank you so very very much from the bottom of my heart for providing so much of the soundtrack of my life.
You will truly be missed.
And on your final resting day, I wish you peace and love eternal.
- S.
- Mood:
sad - Music:Harry Connick, Jr. - Honestly Now (Safety's just Danger...Out of Place) | Powered by Last.fm
| You Are An INFP |
![]() You are a creative person with a great imagination. You enjoy living in your own inner world. Open minded and accepting, you strive for harmony in your important relationships. It takes a long time for people to get to know you. You are hesitant to let people get close to you. But once you care for someone, you do everything you can to help them grow and develop. In love, you tend to have high (and often unrealistic) standards. You are very sensitive. You tend to have intense feelings. At work, you need to do something that expresses your personal values. You would make an excellent writer, psychologist, or artist. How you see yourself: Unselfish, empathetic, and spiritual When other people don't get you, they see you as: Unrealistic, naive, and weak |
And all this adds up to me still stomping through life without a clue and feeling like what I don't know is gonna drive me insane.
But hey, at least I'm consistent. What about you?
- Mood:
drained - Music:"One of These Nights" - Eagles
So it seems I've finally reached the point of blogger's constipation. I have so much to say that nothing wants to come out, so here I sit. (There's an image.)
I would say that the ramped up frenzy of last year's election has left me with a sense of quiet. Now instead of comsuming mass amounts of CNN, MSNBC, and all the other newsy junk food, I have to face myself again....coming back to the same uncertainties that I managed to stave off for a period of time. That mirror gazing can be a bitch sometimes, but it's necessary I suppose.
Some other quick updates: So far I'm weathering the financial crisis OK, but I don't know how much longer the folks around me are going to be able to hold out. No less than 6 of my close family members have been out of work since last year, and I don't see things picking up any time soon. I'm wondering if I'm going to have to take in a few of them. We shall see.
I saw The Watchmen last week and really enjoyed the film. As a non-reader of graphic novels, I am glad to have had the opportunity to read and familiarize myself with the story prior to attending the movie, else I would have been very confused at times. Overall, I thought it was a pretty good rendering of a novel that had to be difficult to translate to film. I did find the music at times to be totally incongruous with what was happening onscreen, awesome soundtrack notwithstanding. (Thanks T-Rex. =)
My book challenge isn't going so well this year, probably because I seem to have less time to read and am tired all the time. I've also cut back on my TV viewing, so at the present time I have no idea what the latest hap is on Heroes, Supernatural, Psyche, or Ugly Betty. And I'm really not all that concerned.
If you wanna know where your flist has gone, they are all on FaceBook..or at least it seems that way. ::whistles innocently::
Grammar geek note: Last week I was accused of being a "gerund hater." :: Snort :: It's true, when proofing reviews, I tend to remove -ing verbs and replace them with straight present tense. But of all the things to be called...
A word to the stupid parents: Not to go all Bill Cosby on your ass, but if you name your child after a mixed drink or an alcoholic beverage, you
And last, to finish out a pretty pointless post, how about a good old awesomely awesome 80s video. Timeless, poptastic, goodness:
"Think about it, there must be higher love....without it, life is wasted time..."
- Mood:
bored - Music:"Higher Love" - Steve Winwood
Happy Birthday to me and
As sisters in birth and born of the very best zodiac sign I wish you the best day ever!!
=)
- Mood:
bouncy - Music:"Edge of Seventeen" - Stevie Nicks
Got restraints?
No? You may be the only one left who doesn't.
For the record, I consider myself to be an enlightened kind of girl. I grew up in the city and the suburbs and for the most part don't consider myself to have led a sheltered life. I spend a considerable amount of time on the internet and feel comfortable saying that my breadth of knowledge is fairly vast, if not always comprehensive. In other words, I know a little bit about a lot of things.
That said, the acronym BDSM was not something that came across my path very often until about a year and a half ago. Now it seems I'm practically tripping over it ever where I go. (Where have YOU been hanging out Abstract_Truth? Yeah I know...I called your question from way over here in cyberville!) Surprisingly enough, I haven't been going out of my way to find it.
Now for the sake of full disclosure I will admit that the majority of my exposure (heh) stems from reading and reviewing romance and erotica novels, but as ubiquitous as the "tie me up, tie my down" scenes have become in Romancelandia..it certainly isn't limited to it. From The Dirty Show to local conventions, this once hidden culture is suddenly everywhere.
As for me, I think anyone who really knows me knows that I'm no prude, and although I don't advertise it I have a pretty high tolerence for viewing things that rank high on the erotic scale. Even so, I have to admit my eyebrows went to my hairline when I was directed to the Canadian Mini-Cooper ad sporting the "Mini Cooper Dominates Winter" tagline. Check it out:
www.mini.ca/DominateWinter/
Uh huh...have fun clicking through that one. (Side note: Smartbitchestrashybooks.com had a funny thread going where commenters debated whether the chick is a real dominatrix or just plays one on a website.)
Now I'll admit, I got a good chuckle clicking away and spanking the car (::snort::) and it was a good way to kill a few minutes. I also felt as though it was probably all in good fun and likely to be viewed (mostly) by folks who have reached the age of majority. However, I was not amused when I went to look up a word on dictionary.com during Nanowrimo and was treated to a prominent ad (and ass) banner outfitted in poured on leather. (Whip included to complete the look). How's this for a site that gets your attention:
www.fittingroup.com/
So.Not.Cool.
And I know that dictionary.com subscribes to clickad.net (or some such advertising sponsor) and they have no control over what pops up randomly, but damn it's getting damn hard to control the content coming at the kiddies these days when it's not even safe to look up a word anymore.
But honestly, this post wasn't intended to be a rant about racy ads and evil sex demons trying to take over the world. I just think it's interesting how far left the pendulum has come crashing in the wake of the conservative clusterfuck (haa haa) of the past few years. One does have to pause and wonder, what next?
Don't be surprised if within a year you turn on the TV and see Tyra or Oprah sitting with wide-eyed fascination while Mistress X gives instructions on how to give a proper spanking to a rapt audience of eager house-wives.
Just saying...
- Mood:
under the weather - Music:The Spinners - They Just Can't Stop it The (Games People Play) | Powered by Last.fm
I mean we have a new president, the economy continues to suck, I still stay up way too late and drink too much coffee.
Guitar Hero is me and The Kid's new obsession...and I think I may wanna move to Texas.
While reminiscing about games of the 70s, I recently became angry about how the Spirograph always included designs that the average 10 year old has no hope of ever duplicating. (Stupid football shaped gears....and those cheap ass pens!) Don't even get me started on the Slinky!
Rock hits of the 70s and 80s are my current playlist (courtesy of the Guitar Hero thang) and now that the election is over I can't tell you the last time I actually sat and watched a television program.
Judging from my TBR pile, it will take me 20 years to reach the bottom of it...if I don't buy another book for 20 years. Well, that's not gonna happen and I absolutely love reading and writing reviews so I don't let that stress me much.
It's almost mid-February...and my Christmas tree is still up. Yeah, I know.
Judging from a year ago, so much is different yet so much is the same. But I'm still here and it seems that for now so is dear LJ.
So tell me...what's going on in your world?
So yeah, I've been largely silent this past few weeks. Honestly? I haven't had much to say in terms of content, so I figured why fake the funk.
The only resolutions I'm making is to try to get into better shape (standard resolution every year), face the wind no matter how hard it blows, and to use the good dishes more often...because, really...what am I saving them for? (Thanks Hopper!)
2008 was a strange and wonderful year. I'm looking for 2009 to build upon that. Other than that...that's pretty much it.
To make up for my lack of creativity I've decided to take a walk down memory lane, because nothing says "New Year" like looking back at the past. So without further ado, I give you Tom and Jerry and the (Uncle) Pecos Pest episode.
That oughta put a smile on your face.
=)
- Mood:
complacent
Not to sound "new-agey" or weird for the sake of being weird in some sort of lame attempt to be hip or cool, but I truly love to gaze upon the moon. It doesn't even have to be a full moon. I just need to see it.
At night before I go to bed, I always look outside my window and try to locate the moon. I don't know why but the sight of it soothes me somehow and I feel calm about going to sleep. I don't like nights when the moon isn't visible and I get annoyed when treelines or houses block my view.
Funny thing is, I don't follow the moon cycles or anything. I don't try to tie my moods into the phases of the moon or track it for any advanced astrological purposes. I just like the comfort of looking up and seeing it bright in the sky...then again, it could be a Pisces/Water Sign thing. Who knows?
It's strange, I know...but it's true and I'm sharing.
Make of it what you will.
Any other moon fans out there?
- Music:Dinah Washington - Teach Me Tonight | Powered by Last.fm

It was grueling, but strangely gratifying...in a nerdy kind of way.
I look forward to catching up with everyone next month!
- Mood:
accomplished - Music:Hope - I Want You To Know | Powered by Last.fm
I'm rounding the corner...ready to bring it on home!
Yay me!
- Mood:
creative
Otherwise...doing the Nanowrimo thing.
See you in December!
- Mood:
tired - Music:The hum of the refrigerator
Trolling around on Facebook a couple of weeks ago I came across a status update posted by my cousin Gregory. Gregory attends a prep school out in the suburbs. (Read: predominately not minority student population).
Here's a kid that despite suffering some major tragedies has managed to keep an amazing attitude about life and an unwavering optimism about the future. In the post that I read, he was basking in wonder and amazement at being elected Class President. One of his "friends" from around the way remarked..."Aww...they only elected you because of Barack Obama!" to which Gregory laughed off the comment in a good natured way and accused his friend of always saying things like that....
...but what if?
What if Barack's success in his presidental bid, galvanizing so many folks, and inspiring millions to dream of a better, more cooperative world changes not only the political game, but the game of life? What if electing an African American Class President in a predominately white school suddenly becomes something that isn't viewed as an interesting anomaly, but an insignificant fact of the matter?
What if?
What if looking at the Obamas, people will finally get to see that beneath it all, most of us want the same things in life? A nice place to live. A safe environment to thrive in. An uninhibited chance to work and get equal pay for equal work...a fair chance at making some of our dreams come true...a real chance for our children to learn and grow. A chance to really and truly....LIVE.
What if?
What if for the first time ever, every American parent regardless of race, creed, or color...can look their children square in the eye and tell them that they too can be anything that they want to be..even President of the United States, if they really work hard for it...and this time actually have something to point to as proof positive that this statement is true?
What if?
What if Barack Obama is elected president and is unable to prove himself as effective and dynamic as we all hope he can be? What judgment will be passed down on people of color should he fail?
What if despite all the doubts and fears, hope prevails and things actually do start to get better?
What if?
For the first time in a long time, I'm excited and cautiously optimistic about the future...and a whole lot of "What ifs?"
- Location:the kitchen
- Mood:
contemplative - Music:Lou Rawls - If It's The Last Thing I Do | Powered by Last.fm
Who knew? I have the power to make suburban women cower and run like their drawers are on fire, seeking the safety of their suburban homes.
And all I have to do is to walk down their street on a sunny Sunday wearing an Obama '08 t-shirt with a clipboard in my hand.
LOL.
I swear...best laugh I've had all day.
- Mood:
amused - Music:Michael Jackson - Why You Wanna Trip on Me | Powered by Last.fm
The following event took place today at the local Subway Sandwich Shop between the hour of 12:00pm and 1:00pm.
Grandma: "Go grab something to drink with your sandwich."
The Kid: "Okay Namma...I think I want the Hawaiian Punch."
Grandma: "Eh, I dunno. I don't like the idea of you drinking all that red juice. Why don't you pick something else? How about some apple juice?"
The Kid: "Awww..but I really want Hawaiian Punch."
Grandma: ::gives a look:: "Pick something else."
The Kid: "Alright." ::face brightens:: "I'll just get a Squirt then. My momma lets me drink that....and it's not red."
Grandma: "Your mother doesn't let you drink soda."
The Kid: "Yuh huh"
Grandma: "Are you sure?"
The Kid: "Uh huh." ::nodding with raised eyebrows and a smile that's missing teeth::
Grandma: ::frowns:: "Fine. Get the Hawaiian Punch. I think it at least has SOME real fruit juice in it."
The Kid: "Thanks Namma...you're the BEST!"
::shaking my head::
I can only hope he grows up to use his cuteness powers for good and not evil.
- Mood:
calm - Music:Counting Crows - Angels of the Silences | Powered by Last.fm
Don't get me wrong, I love a spirited discussion, and the world would be a pretty boring place if we all agreed on everything...but it's the willingness to defer to ignorance that has me ready to spit fire.
And let me say this...I don't care if you are Republican, Democrat, Independent or voting the Green Martian ticket. I can respect that even if I wholeheartedly disagree with you. But these folks that claim to be undecided...at this late date? I'm calling BS and labeling them as attention whores.
Yes.
I.
Said it.
I mean, what is there to be undecided about that you feel will be suddenly revealed in 3 weeks? Are you waiting for a divine sign as to who to vote for? Or are you simply waiting for that last bit of juicy dirt to get dealt before you decide on who would be the lesser of the evils? I simply do not get it. Personally, I think that folks claiming to still be undecided are more than likely leaning one way versus the other and just either don't want anyone to know which way that is...or they like to give the impression of still "considering the issues/candidates" to make the best decision possible.
:-/
Maybe...but again I doubt it. Get off the fence already!
I do know that as the days grow closer to the election, I am much more prone to picking up my keyboard and pounding out some strong opinions regarding a lot of the silliness that seems to be cropping up more and more. Worse are the people who continue to turn a blind eye to the fact that Americans are being treated like morons who can't recognize BS and code speak when we hear it.
This is too much.
Yes I know I'm rambling.
And I probably won't stop ranting until well after the election.
Consider yourself warned.
- Mood:
aggravated
...at least it isn't for boy puppies.
When Puppy's Play, It's Ladies First
"During puppy play, young males sometimes put themselves in a position where they can be taken advantage of by their female playmates. The early behavior could serve them well later in life, say researchers."
Daaaaamn...male subs in doggydom. Who'da thunk it? (And why does that statement crack me up no end?)
As cute as this story is, it just goes to show that boys...even boy dogs, are always thinking with their peters...
And seriously...the professor's last name is SMUTS??
Really?
Shit, with a last name like that...I suppose her career options were a bit limited.
::snicker::
- Mood:
amused - Music:"I Miss You" - Rolling Stones
I'm off tomorrow and I'm sitting here eating homemade chicken and noodle soup and getting ready for tonight's scheduled
What are you up to?
Will you be watching?
What's the spread in Vegas on this thing?
Will they focus on the issues? Or just jump right in with the straight hate?
So many possibilities....
It would be awesome if this was like wrestling and there was a running commentary throughout the debate. They could have a Democrat straight man and a Republican doing color commentary...because clearly they are the heels.
Something for the alternative press to think about.
Just about a half hour to go!
- Mood:disgusted
So I'm checking in.
Haven't been lj-ing much lately, but that's 'cause I haven't had much to say as of late.
Several people that I know and care about have lost their jobs recently, and I anticipate that things will get much worse in the months to come. The sad thing is, the loss will be felt far beyond those who actually lost their jobs.
Turbulent and interesting times these are.
Having said that, there are items I feel compelled to post. First there is this:
Pilots Complete Suspension After Falling Asleep on Flight
"... it was still unclear how both pilots fell asleep on the brief midmorning flight, which was carrying 40 passengers.
No problems were found after examining the aircraft's pressurization system and carbon monoxide levels.
The pilots failed to respond to nearly a dozen calls from air traffic controllers over a span of 17 minutes.
In recordings obtained by The Associated Press, the controller is heard repeatedly trying to contact the pilots and talks to the pilot of another Go flight in hopes of reaching Flight 1002."
:-/
Ten bucks says these guys were not asleep, but otherwise engaged for those 17 minutes. Apparently membership to the "Mile High Club" isn't restricted to passengers only. Just saying...
And how about this:
Eagle Eye Trailer
How in the name of Even Stevens did Shia LeBouf get to be "the hawt guy?" My, my, my...how he has grown up!
Lord have mercy. I'm cracking up at the McCain/Palin folks coming to the sad and sorry realization that the final exam is coming up...and there just isn't enough time for Palin to cram for it.
I think I'm just going to set my DVR to tape The Daily Show, AC 360, and Olbermann...then I'm gonna sit back and watch the hilarity ensue.
It's so sad...but funny...but mostly sad.
- Mood:
contemplative
I am cold
And the moon beckons
The blues melt into the velvet of the sky
I welcome the embrace
Night on my skin
A soothing touch
I taste the light of the stars
It reminds me of home
My Beloved
I feel the indelible mark
Of You
- Mood:
enthralled
When Jason Bourne is terrified of someone...you KNOW it's a bad thing.
Gah! I honestly don't think I could love this man more!
And in honor of his sentiments, I dedicate this not so classic moment in hip hop by JT Money to Sarah Palin:
Yes y'all, because being the governor of Alaska is kinda like being a no-frills brand product that people don't even notice sitting there taking up shelf space until you're desperate...all the good stuff is gone.
- Music:"Who dat?" - JT Money


